GeneralGentlemen: Do They Still Exist?

I’m a big fan of old movies, no lie.
 
It took me a while to realize why I liked them so much, and while the awesome outfits, lack of internet, and simpler lives are definitely a draw, I finally figured out that one of the main reasons I love them so much is for the chivalry of so many leading men.
 
 
Dictionary Definition of a Gentleman:
  • A well-mannered and considerate man with high standards of proper behavior. 
  • A man who is cultured, courteous, and well-educated
  • A man whose conduct conforms to a high standard of propriety or correct behavior.
 
In 1899, The Baltimore Sun ran an essay competition for the best definition of a gentleman. The winner, Dr. John Walter Wayland, submitted this description: 
 
“The True Gentleman is the man whose conduct proceeds from goodwill and an acute sense of propriety, and whose self control is equal to all emergencies; who does not make the poor man conscious of his poverty, the obscure man of his obscurity, or any man of his inferiority or deformity; who is himself humbled if necessity compels him to humble another; who does not flatter wealth, cringe before power, or boast of his own possessions or achievements; who speaks with frankness but always with sincerity and sympathy; whose deed follows his word; who thinks of the rights and feelings of others rather than his own; and who appears well in any company, a man with whom honor is sacred and virtue safe.”
 
When I think of gentlemen with qualities like these, it is the men who weren’t in every tabloid who stood out to me. These were family men who brought genuine passion to the screen and set aside much of their time and wealth to help out others.
 
 
 I mean, look at some of the icons from the last century:
 
Paul Newman
 
 
Yes, his face is on the salad dressing, but Paul Newman was also known for his humanitarian efforts and his strong sense of family. When he was asked about infidelity, this was his famous reply: “Why go out for a hamburger when you have steak at home?”
 
Fred Astaire
 
 
Known as the the best-dressed actor in American movies, he was known for his warm heart, impeccable sense of style, and love for jokes.
 
Gregory Peck
 
 
Roman Holiday…swoon. The famous Atticus Finch was given the Presidential Medal of Freedom in 1969 to honor his humanitarian efforts. 
 
These men were known above all for courteous natures, their dedication to their families, and their innate sense of honor. 
 
Our definition of a gentleman in today’s society has certainly evolved with the times (carrying a cane and wearing a suit every day are not de rigeur anymore), but there are certainly characteristics that still a chivalrous man make.
 
These are some of my top picks for modern-day gentlemen:
 
Hugh Jackman, Samuel L. Jackson, Tom Hanks, & Antonio Banderas
 

 
Talented, committed to their families, and intent on helping the world, these are men who definitely hold up to my definition of a gentleman.
 
Now here’s the real question. Am I just full of it, or do gentlemen still exist? Propriety for both guys and gals has gotten extremely lax these days, so maybe I’m a wishful thinker in hoping that there are true gents and ladies still around.
 
What do you think? Do real gentlemen still exist? If so, what qualities do they hold that make them so?
 
(Pics courtesy of Google Images.)

FashionTrend Alert: Smoking Slippers

 
You don’t have to be a shoe writer (it does help though!) to notice that the hot new flat of the season is well, smokin. (Oh, pardon me. I punned). The smoking slipper is EVERYWHERE, (LuLu*s included!), and it’s much less “Hef” and more “her” than you might expect.
 

 
Everyone from Christian Louboutin (yes, red soles included), Jimmy Choo, Alexander McQueen, and Rebecca Minkoff to Sam Edelman and Ralph Lauren have contributed to the trend, vamping it up with fun prints and colors, sparkles, spikes, studs, and even skulls. Check out some of the stars spreading the word:
 

Alexa Chung and SJP working the versatility of Charlotte Olympia’s super popular Kitty slipper flats (above).
 
Clockwise from top left: Nicky Hilton, Olivia Palermo, Ashley Olsen, and Kate Moss
 
Beyonce goes retro in her “Countdown” video (above).
 

LOVE how street style superstar Giovanna Battaglia (above) dresses hers up!
 
Rihanna’s got three different pairs:
 
 
And check out how much Anne Hathaway loves her “Rolling Spikes” Louboutins!
 

 
Converting flat-haters worldwide, the smoking slipper (I also have a tendency to call them loafers) adds a classic polish to any look, and hits the menswear trend on the nose. I’m particularly loving the dressed up look as an alternative to heels, especially in a more feminine, low cut silhouette.
 
Now, you know LuLu*s has your back on this one, so check out all of our lovely options!

Confession: I may have taken the Qupid Strip 27 home in Berry, Mustard, and Leopard (sold out), so don’t be too shy to splurge!
 

(Image courtesy of StyleBistro, JustJared, SheFinds, PhotoDiarist, 29Secrets, and Net-a-Porter)

CelebrityIt Girl: Clemence Poesy


Sign: Sagittarius 
Status: French Actress and Model

Signature Style: Easygoing street style paired with designer pieces.
Kissing Colin: She starred across from Colin Farrell in the film In Bruges.

Wizardry:Played Fleur Delacour in the last three Harry Potter films.Currently: Filming Mr. Morgan’s Last Love in Paris with Michael Caine.

FashionA Wintry Gypsy: Maryna Linchuk for Vogue Russia

Cozy up to this wintry gypsy look that includes printed maxi dresses, neutral-toned riding boots, and furry accessories, captured by Mariano Vivanco for Vogue Russia.
 
Model Maryna Linchuk kills it as the glamorous Bohemian in this isolated woodland setting that could have been penned by the Brothers Grimm. The quiet log cabin and sunny birch forest are punctuated by subdued fall prints by designers including Michael Kors, Fendi and Anna Sui.
 
 

 
 
 
 
 
 

FashionReal vs. Steal: Rebecca Minkoff Dress

 

We always want things we can’t have; it’s part of nature, right? Well, at least I know I feel that way. I love looking at expensive things that I can one day own. We can’t all spend $500 on a dress. That’s why I love how the fashion world “borrows” styles and makes a more affordable version for us mortals. So here’s another version of Real vs Steal, with an ever-so-sexy Rebecca Minkoff dress. 
 
Real
 
Rebecca Minkoff Pleated Sexy Dress $428
 
 VS

Steal
 
Surprise Surprise dress in black, fuchsia, and teal $36.50